Farouk Martins Aresa @oomoaresa
\nThere are many of us interested in mature women over the age of 30, not those younger ones.
\nThose can be annoying and a turn-off for older mature men. We understand all the reasons
\nsome older men go for young girls, but they do not appeal to men like us. We like mature
\nladies. Too many young men cry that older men are taking over their young mates. Please do
\nnot lump all these men together. Some of us have taste and recognize a good gem as Sadiya
\nUmar Farouk.
\nThere is something charming about older or mature women. They want to enjoy men, not fight
\nthem. Most mature women know what they want in life. They are done with those men playing
\ngames, they have grown into a career they want and are independent enough not to be a
\nburden on any man. Yes, there are few regrets about a few nice guys they could have paid more
\nattention to and others they have turned down because those did not meet their standard.
\nMoreover, mature women’s careers are very important to them. It is true that if some have to
\ndo it all over, they would have given up their careers for that one guy they remember very well.
\nBut then, he later got married to someone else. So, life continues. There is no reason or enough
\ntime to cry over missed opportunities. Let us be frank, nobody has it all. The imagined picture of
\na super woman with multiple arms is a lie just as that of a superman.
\nSo Buhari we have waited long enough. If any of us get that pretty lady while you are waiting to
\nstrike or undecided, tell your military henchmen to back off. There should be no surveillance,
\nharassment or maiming of any man that values a beautiful woman in his life and cannot wait to
\ngo for Sadiya, a mature pretty lady for that matter.
\nHowever, we have seen the long list of items Africans in general as Nigerian parents demand
\nfrom the suitors of their daughters. As if those items are not discouraging enough, we have also
\nseen the videos of parents asking how many lashes of koboko a man can take before they will
\ngive out their daughters. Kai! Drain a man\u2019s savings and\/or dislocate him with koboko!
\nSeriously? You really mean to bankrupt a man before he enjoys a loving relationship with your
\ndaughter. By the time he took so many strokes of koboko on the back, the main instrument in
\nfront would have been rendered useless and bankrupt. On the other hand, if he has to pay for
\nall the items demanded on the list, there is nothing left to feed your daughter. In other words,
\nthe suitors of your daughters would be castrated physically and financially before marriage.
\nTherefore Buhari, make your first move now or forever stay clear. We know you were a General
\nin the Army and a rich man after that since you claim you can now afford to enjoy Western
\nluxuries. Your designer pair of shoes have been pointed out lately, abi na Okrika made sef? If
\nyou go first we may see how Buhari \u201ca frugal man\u201d would pay or give away all the items on the
\nlist, not to even think about who would dare use that koboko. Buhari we dare you, you go first! We heard of all those stories that Aisha Buhari is adamantly against it. Haba Aisha, let the man
\nenjoy small nah. You want to be the only one married to the Head of State, the General Military
\nRuler that gave us Operation War Against Indiscipline (WAI), and the Chairman of Petroleum
\nTrust Fund (PTF). Aisha, abeg don\u2019t be selfish, allow another man daughter to enjoy small nah!
\nBut Buhari\u2019s loss of Sadiya Is another man’s gain. There are some graceful Africana about the
\nway Sadiya walks, the way she talks, the way she looks and the whole African moves. She must
\nbe an angel in disguise. There was a song by Elvis Presley along the same line. It could also be
\nthe song by Eddie Okonta: mo ti wae wae l’Eko o Abeni. Ani Pele ojue o Etike, Ibadie o, Ayakata!
\nFela Anikulapo Kuti told us to shoot straight, enough playing around by F\u2019Omu Sere. Do you love
\nSadiya to the depth and breadth and height of your heart? So, Buhari make up your mind and
\nstop looking at Sadiya from the side of your eyes. Others are also watching and waiting to make
\ntheir moves. Abegi, park make we pass jor!
\nBuhari might see all news reports on Sadiya as gossip without reality in his deeds or attention.
\nHowever, Aisha cannot call it fake news and call for control of Free Speech after the leaked
\nvideo of her. If the choice is between Free Press, Censorship and Death Penalty for looters, we
\nare better off with Free Press. Aisha, if China with 1.2b people can institute death penalty for
\nlooters, Nigeria with 1.8m people can do the same for looters and let Free Press reign.
\nIf just one of us has his way with Sadiya, everybody will be happy: Buhari will be glad that he
\nhas not disappointed his extended family that are behind this since he has no interest in Sadiya,
\nAisha will be happy and Sadiya will be happy too. Can anybody think of a better solution?
\nFYI: This query arose from an admirer whose sister is a friend of the author\u2019s half-brother from
\nanother mother; reported by a man of God. Sey you get nah?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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