LIFE AFTER DIVORCE
As usual ,this sunday i am about to thread on topic that most people
dread to touch even with a shovel,but kedu nke barber na udene ?. I am not in the business of making you happy or saying things to make
friends ,i am in the business of saying it the way it should be and the
way God wanted it to be.
To many people Divorce is better than coffin ,which is true . To others if you are not happy in marriage better divorce which is also
true ,but can you just shut up and come with me to hear ugheli danda ?
TODAY ,i am about to come hard on our women and next shall be on our
men,but all is for odi nma ndi igbo/Africa and taking back our LOVE and
family hood ,which we sold for foreign culture that is uselessing our
future and living.
Your life happiness ended the day you took your marriage to a judge or
the day you get yourself a DIVORCE lawyer ,that was the day you wave bye
bye to your joy and happiness . In this respect ,i am talking of marriage that was contracted in African
home town ,not the likes obtained in Western world,such as the one you
meet a spouse on the train,shopping mall or disco and in next hour both
of you rush to Marriage registry and come out HUS-BOUND AND WIPE . Which owing to the same chaotic way it was contracted ,it ends the same
way and no crocodile tear ,no love lost because none was gained to start
with .
That is where a man or woman will wake up the next morning and tell the
spouse in a conversationary tone "Dear ,give me a divorce" and the
spouse without blinking an eye lid will respond "NO PROBLEM,WHAT TIME
?",,tell your lawyer to talk to my lawyer, and will i visit you atimes
?.
When you are African born and breed and you got married in African soil
and suddenly you discovered that Divorce is the inn thing ,then i have
message for you...Do not rush me for i am still coming to deliver my
message.
Ladies here is where i have axe to grind with you because 97% of divorce
are generated by women,who felt that they want to be independent of a
man but depend on him for upkeep and the demands of life. When you Divorce a man ,that means you are fed up with him and his way
of life,you do not want anything to do with him.He is evil that you
cannot stand and do not wish to have anything to do with. But you lied ,big time to yourself,your children and posterity.
If you hate the man long enough that you ran quickly to divorce him ,why
then did you accept CHILD SUPPORT ,ALIMONY and other jargons that
benefit the lady from same BAD MAN ?,does it mean that the man is not
bad ,but you want freedom to taste things out there without restrictions
or questions ?
Why do you share in his wealth ? oburu na iju ekwensu ,iju ya na olu ya
nile [if you reject evil ,you will hate all his works and benefit]. If you hate man enough to Divorce him ,you will hate the Money he was
compelled to pay you under tears and duress .You cannot hate him and
love his money and alimony ,it is Evil standard.
Does it not occur to you that ,you are killing that same man every month
end ?,that he also hate you every month end, and you remember him every
month end ?,which brings to mind ,you are still in LOVE WITH him through
his money .
Do you not think that if you are to be involved in an accident and have
5 seconds to live and he is the only person that will save you ,i am
sure that he will RATHER drink posion than to lift a hand toward saving
you ,so that you will continue exploiting his life, because your demise
is a relief to him...Yes,once you divorced him and continue extorting
from him, money that he do not have,money that he would prefer to use
for other things and you conspire with a judge that know nothing about
parenthood and nail the man to a cross,that was the day you killed
another human and in this case the father of your children.
If you hate the man enough to divorce him ,please hate his money enough
to reject it. If you do not want his relationship ,do not related to his money. If you
can handle a family on your own ,why bother asking the HUS-BOUND to
slave for you ?. If you hate the man enough to divorce him ,better hate the children he
brought to this world with your consent, give them back to him,but if
you hold unto his children and,extort money from him ,call it child
support or alimony ,then you never divorced him .... YOU ARE TAKING HIM
TO CLEANERS to make his life miserably.
Just look at the mirror in your house now and you will see some
inscription on your forehead,it reads FRAUD.
Do not pretend that you do not know that the man you are extorting is
cursing you and the day he met you at the end of every month ,when he
will pay you for blackmailing him with support of a judge. Also you curse him every month end he delayed in paying your ransom.
Tommorrow some of you will talk about 419,fraud and evil ,is there any
thing that is more horrifying than a man took his time to marry a woman
,bring her to his home to be his wife,make her mother of his children
and the woman owing to some stupid western culture will weave a fetter
of Iron and hung it around the man,s neck.Which will make the man she
formerly confessed loving to be paying her RANSOM to the rest of the
man,s life, which the woman made useless in the first place.
Listen and listen good ,every penny you collect as Child support or
alimony is EXTORTION AND EXPLOITATION and do not worry about praying for
you can fool men but not God.If you want child support move back to your
husband and both of you can bring the children up with parental care and
love,but if you think that you are WESTERN ENOUGH to be liberated ,then
stop extorting money from the man you,ve RUINED for life.
Have you not done enough damages in his life ?
When you divorce a man and took his children ,what do you tell the
children about the dad ? ,that your husband who is the father of your
children is USELESS drunk or stupid ?,but you OPEN UP ENOUGH to get
preganant from same useless and stupid man .Do you know that
automatically you are telling the children that they are product of
unprotected sex ? that they are offspring of Drunkard and which means
they will end up been drunk and Stupid .
Do you tell them that thier father is useless ? that you are the wife of
a useless Husband who brought into this world USELESS CHILDREN ?. Did you consider for a minute that everything you said to your children
about thier father has a big role to play in what they will be in life
?.
Do you accept the fact that you killed the happiness of THE MAN ,THE
CHILDREN,YOUR OWN PARENTS,YOUR INLAWS,YOUR BROTHERS,SISTERS AND many
members of the community ?,because your topic will always bring back bad
feelings.
I said it before and i am saying it again ,if you cannot pray ,do not
marry.If you think that marriage has a clause called "DIVORCE" better
continue enjoying STREET SEX . Do not bring children into this world and tear them apart by forcing
them to choose between you and their father who is more EVIL.
By MAZI ODERA
mazi.odera@yahoo