The Virtue of Forgiveness and Reconciliation
By Atiku Abubakar,
Former Vice President of Nigeria
Ever since my recent visit to Abeokuta to reconcile with my former boss,
Chief Olusegun Obasanjo, there has been an incredible floodgate of
reactions from my friends, political associates, newspaper columnists and
other concerned Nigerians.
Many of them recalled the ordeals and humiliations I went through because
of my opposition to the controversial third term agenda, including the
attempt to jail me and scuttle my entire political career and ruin my
future. It has also been argued that I have not been mindful of the
sacrifices of my loyalists, former aides and other Nigerians who lost
their lives, freedom, businesses and livelihoods simply for aligning with
me.
With all humility, I have never lost sight of all these considerations.
There have been hurts on both sides. I do not deny that sacrifices have
been made and our dear country has paid dearly as a result of the crisis
between the former President and myself. Despite everything that has
happened, I sincerely believe that the time has come for us to move
on. We cannot remain perpetually a hostage of the past. Nigeria is
bigger than all of us. we have all learnt some lessons from what happened.
We have resolved to work with the current government to make Nigeria a
great nation. This is what some of my critics have refused to understand.
When emotions overtake our hearts, reason usually finds it hard to be
heard.
In fact, this largely explains why I didn’t react immediately to the
expressions of outrage, disappointment and perceived betrayal by concerned
friends, political associates and other Nigerians. I appreciate their
concern and concede that they have good reasons to express their
reservations about the reconciliation. However, I believe that our dear
country needs healing.
Forgiveness is one of the core principles of Islam, Christianity and other
religious beliefs. God who created us does forgive us despite our
persistent sins and daily transgressions. Both Prophet Muhammad and Jesus
Christ did forgive their enemies even in the face of extreme provocation
and persecution. Therefore, the best tribute we can pay to them is to
follow their examples of forgiveness, reconciliation and peace among
people.
While not denying the fact that I was a victim of persecution, I must as a
leader, demonstrate the virtue of forgiveness and encourage my supporters
to imbibe the same principle. It is sometimes difficult for some people to
forget the past. We can’t perpetually live in the past. Forgiveness is
one of the shiniest virtues a leader should exhibit and shouldn’t feel
ashamed to do so.
In politics, people associate and come together, forge alliances to
promote common interests or struggle to win power under a democratic
process. The men and women who came together in 1998 to form the Peoples
Democratic Party (PDP) were not always the best of friends. Some had been
bitter political rivals who decided to work together for the good of their
communities, states and the nation. Therefore, there is nothing unusual in
former adversaries coming together in the pursuit of higher national
interests. Not a few politicians today have found themselves in the same
party with retired Generals who had put them in prison during military
rule.
It does not make sense, therefore, to suggest that since politicians were
victims of military dictatorships in the past they should hold soldiers
permanently as enemies? Life is not static. I have resolved in this New
Year to extend a hand of friendship to as many people as possible,
including former political foes. I have resolved to rid my mind of
negative emotions and to radiate positive aura towards all. At 62, I have
more years behind me than the years ahead. I do not want to spend the rest
of my life brooding over old wounds and harbouring ill-feelings towards
anyone. I want to spend the rest of my life spreading joy, love and peace
among people.
Therefore, my recent visit to former President Obasanjo shouldn’t be
misconceived. As leaders, we must discard vindictive tendencies so as to
leave a good example for our children and for posterity. In fact, nations
occasionally go to war but eventually reconcile and even become partners
in progress.
My visit to Abeokuta shouldn’t be perceived within the context of my
political aspiration but should be viewed as a sincere effort to entrench
the virtue of forgiveness and peace among leaders and their followers. I
am yet to find any superior argument to convince me against the virtues of
forgiveness and reconciliation. Parents sometimes fall out with their
children, so do husbands and wives experience bitter disagreements. But
eventually they must reconcile for the good of society.
We cannot discard a virtue which God Himself exhorts us to practice. Can
we build a better and prosperous nation when leaders don’t forgive one
another? Can a nation prosper on the basis of permanent hostility and
animosity among its leaders and people? Should we abandon the teachings of
our religions in terms of forgiveness and peaceful co-existence for the
sake of selfish pursuit of vengeance? There is a famous saying that, “an
eye for an eye” will make us all blind.
My peace mission to Abeokuta was not a self-serving political move as some
critics have harshly put it. It was largely a reflection of my desire to
strengthen social, family and political fabrics of the nation through
forgiveness. Power comes from God; He gives it to whom He desires at the
time of His choosing. It is God and the good people of Nigeria who will
decide if they want me to serve this country in a higher capacity in
future.
Signed:
Atiku Abubakar,GCON
Turaki Adamawa,
Abuja,Nigeria.
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